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Daybreak Brings Change of Attitude in a Loveless Situation

Genesis 29:31- 35, NKJV

Now that daybreak has shed light on Laban’s and Leah’s cruel act of deception, Leah’s heartache and pain deepen. Jacob went off on Laban, blaming him for deceiving him. For Leah’s role in the night of deception her husband outright rejected her and loudly protested to Laban about such a switch. He loved Rachel so he willing accepted Laban’s proposal to fulfill Leah’s week as his bride, and Laban gave him Rachel to wife also and serve him another seven years (v. 27-28). “Then Jacob also went in to Rachel, and he also loved Rachel more than Leah. And he served with Laban still another seven years” (v.30). What a compounded mess!

God is all-knowing and always purposeful. From every messy situation we create, He is able to clean it up. His purpose will prevail, and He will get the glory. No matter what the situation we must trust that nothing is too hard for God.  31When the Lord saw that Leah was unloved (Literally hated), He opened her womb; but Rachel was barren. 32So Leah conceived and bore a son, and she called his name Reuben (Literally See, a Son); for she said, “The Lord has surely looked on my affliction. Now therefore, my husband will love me.” 33Then she conceived again and bore a son, and said, “Because the Lord has heard that I am unloved, He has therefore given me this son also.” And she called his name Simeon (literally Heard ). 34She conceived again and bore a son, and said, “Now this time my husband will become attached to me, because I have borne him three sons.” Therefore his name was called Levi (literally Attached).  35And she conceived again and bore a son, and said, “Now I will praise the Lord.” Therefore she called his name Judah (literally Praise). Then she stopped bearing.

Daily she faced the painful reality of false hope in a loveless marriage. Leah’s attitude began to change; she declared that she will now praise the Lord (v.35). She began turning her heart from her husband to God. Her struggles were not over, but through it all, there was daybreak. Give God glory!

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The Unveiling of a Night of Deception at Daybreak

Genesis 29:31, NKJV

Yesterday Laban held a community feast, celebrating Jacob’s and Rachel’s wedding. Was that really Laban’s intention? Was he Satan in disguise? When evening came, Laban took Leah his daughter and brought her to Jacob; and he went in to her (v.23). Laban, Leah and Rachel’s dad, has put Leah in a messy situation – a marriage in competition with her sister Rachel. What a cruel thing to do! Leah knew Jacob didn’t love her, but did she secretly love him? Perhaps she conspired with Laban to betray and deceive Jacob even though in that patriarchal system she probably had no say. Scripture does not show evidence that she bucked against daddy’s plot. Obviously there was no exchange of conversation that night. There must not have been a hello or an I love you between her and Jacob. Maybe she had low self-esteem and was secretly jealous of her little sister, who probably got complimented always on how pretty she was.  

Daybreak brought light, and darkness disappeared. Vine’s Expository Dictionary of Old and New Testament Words denotes that daybreak in different translations means “at early dawn,” “early in the morning,” and “about daybreak.” With   the light of day came the stark and hurtful reality of false hope in a loveless marriage. It loomed painfully before Leah, setting her life on a course laden with struggles – deception, being unloved, betrayal, jealousy, conspiracy, and sharing a marriage with her sister. She needed daybreak so that she could begin to redirect her focus and change her attitude.

God is all-knowing. When the Lord saw that Leah was unloved (literally hated), He opened her womb, but Rachel was barren (v. 31). God will never leave us nor forsake us (Hebrews 13:5). He is well able to navigate through any mess we make of our lives in order to accomplish His purpose. His Light is spiritual Daybreak. Today, He will shine in your heart if you let Him lift the veil behind which you hide – deception, being unwanted and unloved, betrayal, jealousy, conspiracy, marriage problems, abuse, and much, much more. Give God glory!  

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Hurtful Reality of False Hope in a Loveless Relationship

Can you imagine the hurt of knowing your husband didn’t love you, but instead he loved your younger sister? How painful that must’ve been! That was the situation for Leah; she was Jacob’s unloved wife. She knew that he loved Rachel. Yet, she loved him. We live in a fallen world due to disobedience to our heavenly Father; therefore, we experience consequences we’d prefer to avoid.  Leah experienced the hurtful reality of having false hope in a loveless relationship.

About one month after Jacob arrived in Haran and stayed as a guest in his Uncle Laban’s home, his uncle inquired of him as to whether he should serve him for nothing because he was his relative. “What should your wages be” (v.15b)? Jacob loved Rachel so his response to Laban’s question was that he would serve him seven years for Rachel his younger daughter (V.18). This was essentially Jacob’s offer of a   dowry to show that he was able to and willing to take care of a wife. Scripture described Leah’s eyes as being delicate, or weak, in contrast to Rachel being beautiful of form and appearance (17). When Jacob fulfilled the seven-year contract as promised, he asked his Uncle Laban to give him his wife that he may go in unto her (vv. 20a-21). Laban brought all the men of the place together and made a feast as was customary (v. 22). When evening came, Laban took Leah his daughter and brought her to Jacob; and he went in to her (v. 23).

When morning came, Jacob realized that it was Leah (v.25), and he wasn’t happy. Laban’s explanation: “It must not be done so in our country, to give the younger before the firstborn” (v. 26). Jacob agreed to fulfill Leah’s week and he was given Rachel also for another seven years of service with Laban (vv. 27-28). Leah must’ve been heart-broken. She may have thought that she was actually getting a husband. However, she experienced the hurtful reality of having false hope in a loveless relationship. It seemed as if her heart was in the wrong man. A changed heart will result in a changed life.

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The Deadly Consequence of the Evil Queen’s Sowing

2 Kings 11:1-20, NKJV

Athaliah was the wicked daughter of King Ahab and also the mother of Ahaziah.  Ahaziah, son of Jehoram, became king of Judah after his father died; he was killed in the first year of his reign. “When Athaliah, his mother, saw that her son was dead, she arose and destroyed all the royal heirs” (v.1).   This is the Davidic line through which the Messiah was to come. The devil never ceases attempting to abort God’s plans. Athaliah took over and reigned for six years as queen over the land of Judah. During her six-year reign, she didn’t know that a rightful heir to the throne was alive. “Jehoshabeath, the daughter of King Jehoram, the wife of Jehoiada the priest (for she was the sister of Ahaziah), hid Joash, from Athaliah so that she did not kill him” (1 Chronicles 22:11b). For six years “the child was hidden with his nurse in the house of the Lord” to preserve the royal seed.

In the seventh year of Athaliah’s reign, Jehoiada the priest rebelled against her and crowned Joash king of Judah (vv.4-12). 13 Now when Athaliah heard the noise of the escorts and the people, she came to the people in the temple of the Lord. All the people of the land were rejoicing and blowing trumpets. So Athaliah tore her clothes and cried out, “Treason! Treason!” 15 And Jehoiada the priest commanded the captains of the hundreds, the officers of the army, and said to them, “Take her outside under guard, and slay with the sword whoever follows her.” For the priest had said, “Do not let her be killed in the house of the Lord.” 16 So they seized her; and she went by way of the horses’ entrance into the king’s house, and there she was killed.

18 And all the people of the land went to the temple of Baal, and tore it down. 20 So all the people of the land rejoiced; and the city was quiet, for they had slain Athaliah with the sword in the king’s house. If we sow evil; like Athaliah, we will reap evil. Remember, God uses whomsoever He chooses to accomplish His purpose. For He is a purposeful God.

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The Exhortation for Believers to Live Righteously

Ephesians 5:8-10, NKJV

Believers are commanded to “be imitators of God as dear children; 2And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us…” (Ephesians 5:1-2a). Therefore, as imitators of God they should walk, or behave themselves, continually in love just as Christ loved. God sent His Son Jesus in the flesh to die for our sins. His death fulfilled the righteous requirement of the law in us who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit (Romans 8:4). Believers are exhorted to live righteously.  

Apostle Paul told the Ephesian believers “8For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light 9(for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), 10 finding out what is acceptable to the Lord.” Spiritual darkness is out of character for children of God. We were once darkness – sons of disobedience (v.6) – and alienated from God. Believers are to remember that sin has consequences: “The wages of sin is death” (Romans 6:23a). Now that we have taken off the old, corrupt man and put on the new man, we are light in the Lord. Therefore, our walk must honor Him. “Be imitators of God as dear children. The faithful will be eternally rewarded: “…the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 6:23b).

Paul continued the command for the Ephesians to walk as children of light. We know God; we are children of light. “For light, the Holy Spirit, results in all goodness, righteousness, and truth (v.9), finding out what is acceptable to the Lord” (v.10). As light, we are to be mindful that we are exhorted to live righteously. Do not dishonor our Father by conforming to the ways of this world. Give God glory!